Storytime:
This week I realized I had a small hole (and another one soon to be) in my pillowcase. I’ve had my grandmother’s sewing machine in my study for years and had been meaning to learn how to use it. So this simple mending task seemed like the perfect situation to do so.
I think a lot of folks would go straight to AI: “Tell me how to set up this machine, and provide steps on how to mend this hole in my pillowcase.” And in seconds it would spit out full, step-by-step instructions for their custom machine, ready to troubleshoot as issues came up, no problem.
But instead I asked my mom.
We set up a time for us to sit down together so she could teach me.
We cleared the kitchen table and brewed some tea.
We pulled out the old instruction manual with my grandmother’s handwritten notes (and even the receipt).
We experimented with different stitch settings.
I asked dumb questions and made beginner’s mistakes.
We celebrated when I got the hang of it.
AI can teach and empower us in so many ways. But it cannot hand us moments of humanity. There’s beauty in slowing down, in building deep relationships with time, in making embarrassing mistakes when learning a new skill while someone watches with care. We must advocate for these moments in our life. It’s important for our individual and community well-being.
Stay inspired,